{"id":484,"date":"2017-05-02T11:53:52","date_gmt":"2017-05-02T18:53:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ogbornelaw.com\/?p=484"},"modified":"2023-07-24T20:43:02","modified_gmt":"2023-07-24T20:43:02","slug":"emotional-health-collaborative-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/webtechs-designs.com\/2023Ogborne\/emotional-health-collaborative-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Emotional Health Inside Collaborative Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No matter the reason you\u2019ve made this decision, you and your spouse are choosing to end your marriage. And it doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019ve been married one year or 20 if you have children or don\u2019t; it\u2019s still going to be a hard emotional journey for the next few months or years as you adjust to your new status of \u201cdivorced.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>What if there were a better way to make this transition?<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_76 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/webtechs-designs.com\/2023Ogborne\/emotional-health-collaborative-divorce\/#The_Difference_with_Collaborative_Divorce\" >The Difference with Collaborative Divorce<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/webtechs-designs.com\/2023Ogborne\/emotional-health-collaborative-divorce\/#Maintaining_Emotional_Health\" >Maintaining Emotional Health<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/webtechs-designs.com\/2023Ogborne\/emotional-health-collaborative-divorce\/#Professional_Support_Positive_Results\" >Professional Support, Positive Results<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Difference_with_Collaborative_Divorce\"><\/span>The Difference with Collaborative Divorce<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019re definitely going to experience myriad emotions when you divorce, but there\u2019s no rule saying those emotions have to be overwhelmingly negative. In fact, some couples enter into divorce amicably; their only concerns are about how to split assets and co-parent effectively.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you and your spouse have gone through some of the more serious issues that come up in marriage, such as cheating and dishonesty, collaborative divorce can provide options for how to rebuild your communication skills so you can heal enough to move into this next stage. This happens because of the structure of a collaborative divorce, which includes not only the attorneys but also a mental health counselor, and sometimes an additional communication coach. The team fits the needs of the family.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cOne of the best benefits of going through the collaborative divorce process was receiving support. I\u2019d had other friends divorce, and they were mostly bitter and resentful. I understand that not everyone wins in a divorce situation, but the process we experienced allowed my family and me to feel much better about the whole idea of divorce.\u201d \u2014John, age 50, father of three<\/em><\/p>\n<p>When each member of the family is provided access to emotional support throughout the transition, they will flourish. They learn how to manage the feelings they have and work through the negatives while focusing on the positives.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Maintaining_Emotional_Health\"><\/span>Maintaining Emotional Health<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>What is emotional health? It\u2019s all about being happy, which means that you are self-aware, self-confident, and emotionally resilient. If you are in good emotional health, you are able to maneuver life\u2019s challenges and bounce back quicker.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, even if someone is emotionally healthy, a big stressor such as divorce can strike a sharp blow.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI was devastated about going through a divorce. Shari and I married in our early 20s, and I thought we\u2019d be together forever. Her affair and desire to split completely caught me off guard. After all, we\u2019d been so happy\u2014hadn\u2019t we? Even for a very emotionally stable person such as myself, I was taken down when she told me she wanted to end our marriage.\u201d \u2014Keith, age 33, father of one.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Emotional health is something that we, as parents, strive to develop and nurture in our children. We tell them we love them, and we support them through all of the stages of their emotional development. Perhaps one of the components parents love best about collaborative divorce is that it involves the children and supports them.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI was really scared when my parents told me they were getting divorced. I had no idea what to expect, and I didn\u2019t even know where I would be living. My friend Michelle\u2019s parents divorced and she never sees her dad. Was that going to happen to me too?\u201d \u2014Stephanie, age 11<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Professional_Support_Positive_Results\"><\/span>Professional Support, Positive Results<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>With the team involved in a collaborative divorce, the outcome is often drastically different from a litigation approach. Pressing emotions occur no matter how a separation moves forward when support is unavailable the challenges will mount. However, in the safe environment of collaboration, your family will have the space they need to share and heal.<\/p>\n<p>If you are considering a divorce, you can help your family through the transition by choosing a collaborative approach. Your team will include legal, fiscal, and mental health support that can make a huge difference to your family, both now and into the future.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ogbornelaw.com\/contact\/\">Contact Ogborne Law<\/a> to learn more about how your family can maintain emotional health inside collaborative divorce.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019re definitely going to experience myriad emotions when you divorce, but there\u2019s no rule saying those emotions have to be overwhelmingly negative.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":11591,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30,43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-484","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-divorce","category-family-support","category-30","category-43","description-off"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v24.4 - 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